Siri's marriage should be brought to the religious court soon
Peace, mercy and blessings of God
Ustadz, I want to ask a question.
My son is already married, but married in an unregistered manner, because they have often been together/nearby. Coincidentally, they both worked together.
What I ask is, even though they are already married, I do not allow them to have sexual relations. Was my action wrong as a parent forbidding my child not to live under the same roof with her husband before marrying at KUA?
Thank you, Ustadz.
Greetings, Fulanah
ANSWER:
Peace be upon you and God's mercy and blessings be upon you
Thanks for the question.
Perhaps the purpose of unregistered marriage here is a religious marriage, but it has not been established according to the law at the KUA or the Religious Courts.
According to sharia, people who marry by fulfilling the requirements and pillars of marriage, are legally valid, the rights and obligations of husband and wife are attached to them, including husband and wife relationships (sexual relations).
But on the other hand, legally the marriage country needs to be registered and registered at the KUA, so that there is a legal guarantee, with evidence through the marriage book and marriage certificate, for example in relation to child custody, inheritance rights, etc.
Marriage is a worship that should not be kept secret, but must be reported to the public. Therefore, it is necessary to do walimah by inviting close relatives, neighbors, and others, in accordance with the hadith of the Prophet SAW, "Broadcast this marriage, carry out the contract in the mosque, play for him the tambourine, and let one of you hold walimah, even by slaughtering a goat. ." (Hadith narrated by al-Baihaqi).
That way it should be immediately diistbatian and broadcast so that there is no slander and others.
Wallâhu a'lam bish-showâb.
Regards!
[Answered by: Ustadz H. Ahmad Fauzi Qosim]
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