Five things to understand when your partner is wronged and betrayed
Peace, mercy and blessings of God
Ustadz, I want to ask a question.
How can you be sincere when you are abused and betrayed by your partner? So that you can sincerely accept and let go?
Thank you, Ustadz.
Greetings, Fulanah
ANSWER:
Peace be upon you and God's mercy and blessings be upon you
The world is a place of testing. There is no human who lives in this world unless he is bullied and overwhelmed with trials from the Khaliq in the form of problems, calamities, and unpleasant things. When the test comes before us, we must understand:
First, that the test comes from Allah and to improve our class to be a better person.
Second, Everyone who does good will be rewarded by Allah. And vice versa, someone who does wrong must have a reward from Allah in this world before in the Hereafter.
Third, we pray for forgiveness, maybe this situation is due to past mistakes and this problem is here to wash away our sins.
Fourth, trying to keep time with sunnah practices such as tahajjud prayer and dawn alms.
Fifth, prayer as uttered by Umm Salamah during the accident of her husband's death so that she was given a gift in the form of the Prophet. The prayer is:
ا لِلَّهِ ا لَيْهِ اجِعُونَ اللَّهُمَّ لِفْ لِى ا ا
Meaning: "Indeed we belong to Allah and to Him we shall return. O Allah, reward me in this calamity of mine and replace it with something better."
Wallâhu a'lam bish-showâb.
Peace, mercy and blessings of God
[Answered by: Ustadz Fauzan Akbar Daulay]
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