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Peace, mercy and blessings of God
Ustadz, I want to ask a question.
- Actually, what points must a woman have in order to be pious according to Allah's rules?
- How is the adab to speak of a pious woman when in a gathering or gathering with friends and also an 'alim ulama or community leader according to Islamic teachings?
- What is the wife of Rasulullah SAW like, namely Khadijh when doing business or how to trade the wife of Rasulullah SAW?
Thank you, Ustadz.
Greetings, Fulanah
ANSWER:
Peace be upon you and God's mercy and blessings be upon you
First. The desire to be a good person in accordance with the guidance of the Shari'a is the dream of a devout Muslim. Every action is expected to be in accordance with what Allah and His Messenger ordered.
The scholars in accordance with the verses of the Qur'an and the Sunnah of the Prophet collect the requirements as the essence of being a pious Muslimah, including:
- Trying to carry out Allah's commands even though it is the smallest.
- Carry out the sunnah of the Prophet on time.
- Always make yourself a tholibul 'ilm (seeker of knowledge).
- Feel with Allah at all times (dhikr).
- Be compassionate with all beings.
- Obey your husband in obedience to Allah.
- Trust and keep family secrets.
- Get along well.
- Facilitate the needs of others.
- Always forgive in every mistake.
Hopefully all our efforts will be better guided and given taufik by Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala.
Second. Adab is the determinant of goodness in a person. A person's high manners show good attitudes and traits in that person. Among the good manners for a Muslim woman when she speaks and speaks in public or with just one friend are:
- The discussion should be useful or at least not lead to disobedience.
- Should speak according to the level of the person being spoken to.
- Always direct the storyline in the conversation in a positive way.
- If the conversation leads to the negative, it should be reminded or abandoned.
- If you talk to the opposite sex, try as necessary and not secluded.
- If you have finished the conversation, don't forget to read the kafaroh prayer of the assembly.
May Allah guide us to always guard our tongue and speech.
Third. Sayidah Khadijah was the first love of Rasulullah. He was nicknamed al Kubro and At Taahirah because of his struggles and his great position in Islam and the Arab nation.
His lineage is the highest in position, appearance, and even wealth. So that many Meccan men have a crush on him. Before marrying the Prophet, he was married twice because of that he also had quite a lot of wealth.
But he did not just sit around spending the treasure. He traded his wealth so that it became more abundant. Among the techniques or methods that he practiced was collaborating with other business people. The Meccans mostly their business is trading. So they need an injection of funds to develop their business. That is the role of Sayidah Khadijah, she invests in the businesses of these traders and her shares are assigned.
He did not only invest, but also sent his envoys to check on and participate in the businesses run by the traders as Maisarah, a man who was the messenger of Sayidah Khadijah accompanied the Messenger of Allah and carried out their business. It turned out that Khadijah's choice for Al Amin to run his business was not wrong, they made a big profit. Therefore, it can be said that he is a pioneer in business and an accomplished investor.
Wallâhu a'lam bish-showâb.
Peace, mercy and blessings of God
[Answered by: Ustadz Fauzan Akbar Daulay]..
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