DDHK. ORG – Long distance relationship for couples husband and wife not easy. Many unpleasant stories are felt by couples who are in a long-distance relationship when the wife or husband works on different islands or countries such as Hong Kong.
Even so, this is not something to be afraid of. Everything has a solution right? Let's look at this to add enlightenment in getting solutions to overcome LDR aliases long distance relationship for married couples who do not meet every day.
Launching Marriage.com, here are 6 tips for establishing a long-distance relationship for married couples so they can stay romantic even if they have to be LDR. Come on, see!
1. Focus on Communication Quality
Several studies have shown that long-distance couples tend to be more satisfied with their communications than couples who live together. This is most likely because long distance partners really know the importance of communication to support the success of their relationship.
However, communication can also be the root cause of long-distance marriages. Therefore, you and your partner are required to be aware of the quality of communication, understand the differences that interfere when communicating, and know how to resolve disputes that occur when communication takes place.
2. Prioritize Trust
After you and your partner agree to separate and go through a long-distance marriage, then automatically you and your partner must prioritize each other to trust each other. Remember, trust is something that has to be built and it goes beyond sexual fidelity.
Can do it because used to. It may be difficult at first to live with. However, over time you and your partner will get used to not worrying too much about things during separation while you and your partner always try to be honest and trustworthy partners.
3. Emphasize the Positive Things
In a long-distance marriage, of course there are bad things that can attack you and your partner at any time. Of course, you and your partner have to eat, sleep, and wake up alone without each other's company.
But there is still a positive side that you and your partner can get. So, instead of lamenting the negatives, you should focus on the good things until the time comes for you and your partner to live back in the same house. Always remember to concentrate on the opportunities and challenges presented by a long distance relationship to encourage you and your partner to grow as stronger partners.
4. Do Activities Together
Even if you can't meet face to face, at least plan various activities that you and your partner can do virtually. For example, when you are off work, make time to call or video call while doing small things like eating together at each other's places during the video call.
In essence, try to do as many activities as possible that are usually carried out by a partner who lives in the same house so that your soul and your partner continue to unite even though it is difficult to be physically close.
5. Try to be Happy
Try to be happy alone even if there is no partner by your side. Be assured that the more you can enjoy separation, the easier it will be for you to continue to be strong in a relationship that is hindered by distance.
Long distance relationships tend to be difficult to live with. However, believe that you can get through it well as long as you are consistent with the positive things that must be implemented. Most importantly, don't keep demanding your partner be honest if you don't want to be honest during a long-distance relationship yourself. [DDHK News]
