DDHK. ORG - Parenting or parenting style for children includes meeting physical needs, namely food and drink, and also meeting psychological needs, namely love, feeling safe, and socializing with public environment so that children can live in harmony with their environment.
Every parent is obliged raise and love their children. A child really needs guidance and direction from every parent starting from still in the womb until the child understands the meaning of life.
It should be noted that children are unique individuals who have their own existence and soul, and have the right to grow and develop optimally according to their own unique rhythm.
Most of the child's life span is in the family sphere, therefore the parenting style of the child determines and influences the child's personality and behavior.
Reporting from independent, the following types of parenting.
Types of Parenting
Not only understanding the notion of parenting, if you want to become a parent you really need to understand the types of parenting itself, which are as follows:
1. Authoritarian Parenting
This parenting combines high demandingness/control and low acceptance/responsiveness. Parents impose rules, expect strict obedience, seldom explain why children must comply with those rules, and usually rely on power tactics such as corporal punishment to satisfy their needs.
2. Authoritative Parenting
Authoritative parents are more flexible because even though they control and use control, they are also accepting and responsive. Parents make rules that are clear and consistently do it, they also explain the rationalization of parental rules and restrictions.
This means parents, giving children a reasonable understanding of the rules and restrictions that apply. Even though it is absolute parents who make decisions, parents still interact with respect for children's opinions.
3. Permissive Parenting
Permissive parenting is a form of parenting in which parents give children as much freedom as possible to regulate themselves. Children are not required to be responsible and not much controlled by parents.
Permissive parenting style views the child as a person and encourages the child to be undisciplined and the child is allowed to regulate his own behavior.
With this parenting style, the child gets as much freedom as possible from his family. They tend not to reprimand or warn children when children are in danger, and very little guidance is given by them.
4. Neglectful Parenting
This type of parenting generally provides very minimal time and costs for their children. Parents' time is generally used for economic purposes such as work and sometimes they are too cost-effective for their children.
Depressed parents are included in this category, they tend to neglect their children physically and psychologically. Depressed parents do not want to give physical and psychological attention to their children.
The impact of this parenting style is that it will produce the characteristics of children who are moody, impulsive, irresponsible, do not want to give in, have extreme self (low self-esteem), often play truant and often have problems with their friends.
5. Overprotective Parenting
A parenting style in which parents are overly concerned about their child's life. More than an authoritarian parenting style, parents with this parenting style are very worried if their child's needs are not being met, afraid and worried that something bad will happen to their child.
For example, parents scold their children when they hang out with neighbors' children for fear of being naughty. Parents do not allow their children to go camping, for fear of unwanted things happening. This makes children not free. Children will experience too many restrictions that hinder their activities.
As a result they spend more time playing at home. In the long term, children of this type will be more easily dependent on others, easily become anxious, immature, unable to complete basic things.
Here are the types of parenting. Hopefully, you will know more about what type of parenting is suitable for the family. [DDHK News]
