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Have These 5Fs for a Happy Life

DDHK. ORG Happiness in life is definitely a goal that Indonesian migrant workers who have worked for decades in Hong Kong want to achieve. In addition to his happiness in overseas, also for his family in his hometown.

"We are certainly looking for things that can make our lives more comfortable, better, more prosperous. We can be happy, if we have 5Fs, which are 5 things that if we have all of them, we can live happily, "said the Director of Inspiration across Times (IMZ), Fatchuri Rosidin, when delivering the seminar material entitled Seeking Happiness in the Land of Rantau, at the event. Pursuing Graduation Package Batch IV DD University at the Ammar Wan Chai Mosque, Sunday (4/10/2020).

The 5F Formula for a Happy Life

First F, Finance or money. Every migrant worker in Hong Kong wants to get a better income and more money to save, send to family in the village, build houses, and businesses.

Second F, fit or health. "What are you doing we have a lot of money but keep getting sick? Do not let us sacrifice our health because we are too busy raising money. Money is not necessarily collected, pain is certain. We need to protect our health, ”said Fatchuri.

Third F, family or family. Fatchuri ensured that migrant workers leaving their hometowns to Hong Kong were not only looking for money for themselves, but also for their families.

"So don't let the family be sacrificed. In fact, we go (abroad) for the family, ”he said.

Fourth F, friends, friend or best friend. As social beings, humans need friends and feel uncomfortable living alone. Fatchuri suggested that we look for friends who can make our lives more complete.

Fifth F, Faith, belief or religion. Fatchuri emphasized that this is the most important. He reminded us not to chase money but then forget about religion.

"The five Fs must be complete, so that our lives can be balanced," said Fatchuri.

5 Types of Fortune

When explaining the first F, that is Finance or money, Fatchuri said that having money can make someone happy. But he emphasized that money alone does not guarantee happiness in life.

“Happiness is unique. Not people who have a lot of money are automatically happy. Not necessarily. If we want to be happy, we really need to make money. But don't just think about money, it will cause stress, "he said.

He also conveyed five types of fortune. Namely, a guaranteed fortune for all living things. "Believe me, luck is guaranteed by Allah. While our lives are still there, the lives of our children are still there, fortune is certain arrived. If someone's fortune runs out, the angel of death will take his life. So, if today the angels have not taken our lives, it means that we still have a lot of luck, ”said Fatchuri.

There is also a fortune earned by working. This type of windfall is currently attempted by Indonesian migrant workers to Hong Kong.

In addition, there are fortunes obtained because of gratitude. As Allah Ta'ala emphasized, whoever is grateful, will have more enjoyment.

"So, many are grateful and give alms. The more that is donated, the more fortune will be added, ”said Fatchuri.

Allah also provides a fortune for those who fear Him. Besides, there is also fortune that we want to avoid, namely fortune istidraj.

"Good luck istidraj Today, he has a lot of money but his life is unhappy, miserable and always restless, "he said. [Report: Lina / DDHK News]

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